- Family; one of the most important factors for avoiding unsuitable ways in life is family. With a proper Islamic teaching by parents the personality of children are formed which is crucial to their present and future life. Kindness amongst members of a family is another important issue in life which help children as well as parents to cope with problems in life.
- Avoid attracting people’s attention by unsuitable ways; this a weakness and some people want by wearing strange, unusual clothes or make up or ways of walking, to attract attention to themselves. This is not a right way as mentioned in Ayah 31 of Surah Al-Noor.
- Unmarried opposite sex must not be in private together; this is wrong and can lead to unsuitable consequences.
- Modesty; an important characteristic to be preserved and developed during life time.
- Having self-control; particularly at the time when one is under pressure from satanic temptations.
- Marriage; a great Islamic tradition and young people must consider marrying as soon as possible.
Importance of parents showing kindness towards children
SHAFAQNA - According to Islamic teaching if kindness is shown to children inside the family then the children will not seek it outside and will not fall into many difficulties in life. It is narrated from Imam Sadeq (AS) who said: Allah (SWT) is compassionate and forgiving with those who are very kind towards their children [1].
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[1] Thawabul A’amaal wa Eqabul A’amaal by Ibn Babewaih, Page 201.
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